You need real answers or closure. I would go to see her if I were you.. tell her about your job, tell her you miss her and how you feel.
I could bet that when she broke it off with you, she hoped you would say that you would stay no matter what. I could be wrong, but maybe that is what she needed from you to feel secure, and she felt you were not willing to do that.
I don't think seeing her and telling her your situation will hurt your chances, at least it shouldn't if she is mature enough. It should be either she wants to be with you or she doesn't.. and you deserve and answer about that. Honestly.. breaking up with you because you "may" have left the area is not so mature in the first place.. but given the stress you said she's under.. just go talk to her. You need closure either way.