So far as I could see, I am the only person who implied there is probably another side of the story. The original poster is free to listen to everyone but me if she chooses, but I think I offer a different perspective.
No you're not the only person, shh. I think there is probably more to the story than meets the eye. I asked those questions hoping that might lead to the other side.
LMK, before he moves with you, you're going to have to make some self-adjustments, to try and earn the mother's acceptance. First of all, don't be so needy; you don't need to be *saved* and you don't *need* your boyfriend around. You're going to have to prove to his mother that you're independent; no more needing the boyfriend, no more expecting him to save you, you shouldn't expect him to love you more than his mom, etc.
Then he'll eventually move in for the right reasons.
I didn't say she was making it up. I said she has an obvious interest in maintaining her point of view. She's broke and needs a room mate.
Vash, you're a mommy, so your view on these things are skewed.
I'm a disgruntled child of divorced parents, and a broken home.
I think my view on these things is a little more applicable than your own. Mother is "The Man", and "The Man" needs to be brought down.
Oh, please. I agree he should move out... he's too old to be living off his mom. I just don't think he should be moving in with a needy girlfriend.
How do you know? Just because the needy girlfriend says she is?
I have a bridge to sell you.
I don't know why you are stuck on the word "lying". I never said she lied - I said that you are hearing things solely from her perspective. A person does not have to be lying to be unable to see other perspectives.