Fetish could end relationship

[Mish]

We have never had sex due to my fear of pain, he says if we had sex he would rarely ask for this fetish.

Sounds like a "sex pressuring" to me

[lesa]

Sounds like a "sex pressuring" to me

Interesting...very good point Mishanya. It is possible that he made this up so that you will see the alternative--sex--is a better idea.

Dump him fast. You don't even have to dump him....just don't ever call, visit, email, text, or contact him.

Some people and sex...I just don't understand....

[Cain]

Please, dump him. Do you want me to wire you any money?....I'll pay you. Please dump him this very moment.

Dump him! But don't dump on him!

Anyways, this is definitely not a normal thing for men or women to do. It's a nasty, horrible fetish. I don't see how it's sexual. If you're not into this, it will most certainly mess you up for a very long time. I recommend you leave him and find someone else... you can and you will find someone else.

If my gf told me that she wanted me to piss or shit on her... or that she wanted to do it to me... it would be over. That's a nasty damn fetish that I won't be a part of.

[Charlie Boy II]

Cain you're one person who might benefit from a bit of scat.

[Cain]

Cain you're one person who might benefit from a bit of scat.

Only if it's yours, baby.

[misombra]

scat = shit?

[Claire84]

I am virgin still Lately though this fetish has made me realise my sex fears were ridiculous and I have felt like having sex as it seems more natural and nice. I regret dragging my fears out now as maybe he may have been more satisfied with a varied sex life than feeling frustrated and turning to fetishes. I have told him I regret dragging it out for so long.

[lesa]

I truly don't understand this case but I do know that love can make us stupid. You should be glad that you did not lose your virginity to this creep. I have concluded that for some reason he knew it would be easy to take advantage of you in this way.

[Junket]

If that's not something you're into, and it's really important to him, it's time for you to move on. Let him go find a girl who doesn't mind takin' his shit.

Haha.

Get it?

"Taking his shit?"

It's a pun.

Y'know, 'cause we were talking about you takin' his shit.

...

[Cain]

I am virgin still Lately though this fetish has made me realise my sex fears were ridiculous and I have felt like having sex as it seems more natural and nice. I regret dragging my fears out now as maybe he may have been more satisfied with a varied sex life than feeling frustrated and turning to fetishes. I have told him I regret dragging it out for so long.

It sounds like you're thinking he turned to fetishes because you wouldn't have sex with him.... but he did it before he was with you so you need to stop thinking that.

[nejie]

yes girl.if he cares about u and more about himself, he should forget about it and try a more healthy sex...u both would end up getting sick or any kind of disease, and whats the point of staying long in that relationship if obviously, he doesnt think about the future or future with u..

[Illusional]

ok so now that you're thinking about sex what is the problem?? do you still want to be with him or not? first you're going to have to make up your mind with what you want from this guy.

secondly, who gives a f*ck about his fetish. you should be more so concerned about yourself rather than what he wants or thinks. sure, he might be the greatest of guys besides this fetish, but i'm sure so many people thought that of their bf's until they got raped. point being, while you might not agree with certain things about him, why should you endure it? there will always be other people who make you satisfied in this world so why stick with only one?

raverboy

[misombra]

you have the same fetish, don't you raverboy?

[Illusional]

actually no, i'm more into pissing on my woman that shitting on them. i can't stand the smell.... blah.

raverboy

[Gribble]

This thread is ****ing hilarious.