I told you what the spooning was all about... she's crazy and immature and someone who wants to use your feelings for her against you by using you for her real live teddy bear, cuddle bitch emotional tampon. As I also said, you wouldn't cuddle with your male platonic friends so why let your female ones do it?
Ditch and don't speak to her anymore or you'll end up stagnating in this friendship to the point where you'll stop pursuing other women because you're still hung up on her but pretending it's just a friendship. You've broken up. Don't let her demote you from boyfriend to male girlfriend.
Good for you for asking outright so now you know where you stand and you can disengage and move on.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion