Don't be naive to think that everything he is saying is the truth behind his divorce. His children probably disown him because they think their dad is a loser running off to Asia to be with a girl the same age as his daughters. Can you see why a child may think their father was a scumbag? What would you think if this was your father about to leave his children to go off to another continent to be with a girl he hardly knows? This speaks volumes about his character, he should be putting his children first especially under hard circumstances like divorce