Originally Posted by
lovely101
i dont even know how to start... well... me and my husband had many many problems a few months ago, he ended up leaving to stay with his parents.... so i was talking with his friend about all our problems we were having and our relationship started going fether phyically and emotionally, and i really really like him now alot.. but now im back with my husband and he came back to my house. i just dont know how i even feel about that... i have lots of feeling for this other guy now, im sooo confused i dont know what to do?!?!? please help with some advice..
What's there to be confused over? Either you're with your husband, or you're not. Which means either you do right by your husband and divorce him, or you show that you don't respect him, your marriage, or honor your commitments and cheat. Which is it?
There's no confusion involved. You know what you have to do, you know what's right, you're just not willing to make a hard decision. Which is unfortunate, because it means you're going to screw your husband over due to your own personal weakness.
"Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."