I feel awful

[vampiress]

One more addition - I'd suggest to not revisit the issue with your wife. She is already aware of how you feel by your discussion. By bringing it up again you are only revisiting negative emotions and feelings.

I meant that maybe he could express his fears to his wife... I think it would be helpful...

[KingZ]

Am I the only one who realizes how fu​cking absurd this thread is?

[vampiress]

Am I the only one who realizes how fu​cking absurd this thread is?

Unfortunately, you are.

[Wakeup]

@ Wake up
I'm sorry but he has every right to panic.. It's a delicate situation here not any general case.

Sure he certainaly has 'every right to' panic but why would he when he doesn't have to? If you'll note, Vamp every post is basically saying the same thing. That he's not lost control of everything he's learned so why choose to panic?

Unfortunately, you are.

I agree with that.

However if HIA keeps insisting on being "panic stricken" then I'd have to agree with Dopp. No sense his making a mountain out of what appears to be a mole hill to the rest of us. (well, except for vampiress as well I suppose).

Best wishes for a guiltless day, HIA.. what happened doesn't meant you're suddenly going to revert back to being abusive.

[HeartIsAching]

Sure he certainaly has 'every right to' panic but why would he when he doesn't have to? If you'll note, Vamp every post is basically saying the same thing. That he's not lost control of everything he's learned so why choose to panic?

I agree with that.

However if HIA keeps insisting on being "panic stricken" then I'd have to agree with Dopp. No sense his making a mountain out of what appears to be a mole hill to the rest of us. (well, except for vampiress as well I suppose).

Best wishes for a guiltless day, HIA.. what happened doesn't meant you're suddenly going to revert back to being abusive.

No, I'm better now. I mostly just had a "Really?! Holy crap, I'm still an asshole!" moment. Done now.

Thanks everybody... even Doppelmakemelol