It's partly not finding the right guy and partly not having guys pawing at me. I know what the problem is (I hear it all the time from my sister and best friend). I'm too introverted. I'm really bad when it comes to socializing. I'm really nerdy and quiet and tend to avoid social situations (especially if I dont' know anyone there) so that's probably why I'm having a hard time meeting someone. I think guys get scared when they see me all quiet and serious but that's not who I am all the time! Unforutnately, I think I come across as unapproachable (and maybe even arrogant) but in reality, I'm just really, super shy. Sometimes, I blush when a guy just tries to start a conversation. However, I can be really fun and adventerous when I'm with someone I know. I think I need to either find a fellow nerd who'll understand me or someone who's really outgoing and totally my opposite who'll be able to pull me out of my shell