Originally Posted by
LailaK
A while ago I was writing posts like you. I too HATED being single. I just wanted to meet someone who was right for me so we could start our happy life together. Well... I still want that but I just got out of a relationship with a guy who was not right for me and Vash is right, that is worse than being single. In fact, I think I rushed into that relationship and ignored warning signs because I was so desperate not to be single.
My advice to you? This is your time to be selfish so do it. I'm going on a trip to Hawaii with my best friend in September. No boyfriend, no drama, just good times. I'm using my extra time to work on myself. I'm a girl so this means going to the spa, getting my hair and nails done, buying new clothes. I'm not sure what the male equivalent is, but do that. I've only been single for about a week but I've been having fun flirting. It makes me feel better and reminds me that other men are attracted to me and life will go on.
I'm female and also 25 so I have thoughts like "I need to meet my guy soon so we can get married by the time I'm 30 and have kids shortly after! Tick tock what am I going to do!!!". I ignore those stupid thoughts and concentrate on having new experiences and being the best person I can be.
Being single isn't so horrible. It can be a great time to get to know yourself and take care of yourself.