I personally would just absolutely state and make it clear that if he wants to hang out with me on ANY occasion any more he will have to
a) no excuses
b) send date and time
c) KEEP that date and time
d) be available to contact - as in: make sure his phone is ok and loud.
and if he couldnt do that for me, then I would take it as a sign that he is either uninterested or cannot commit even to a time and place to meet. Neither of which i would personally bother with.
I have a clear rule about flaking: once - mistake
twice - setting rules
thrice - im gone, or only if i was very interested - or shed make it up to me VERY nicely then thered be a fourth time
i would not deal with anything else.
But that is just me personally.
Originally Posted by
MartinOhm
Well if you wish to go on with a "booty" relationship then fine; but it seems his working schedule even clashes with that. If you aim at a serious relationship I suggest to look for someone else,
i also second this regarding that it depends on what "relationship" you want out of that guy.
Last edited by Hooo!; 27-02-17 at 04:26 PM.
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