Hello Booba:-
Originally Posted by
boobaa
. He has to make up his days he spends with you, do you? Don't build air castles yet. And your spelling gives me sort of a hint that you are not very old either.
No, he did not make up those hours for me or to spend time with me. He took Saturday off for his niece sweet 16 birthday party, it's huge for Mexican families..so he didnt want to lose pay, that was why he made up hours last Wed and Thurs..he never did anything like this for me and I never will request him to sacrifice work to hangout with me. After reading all these replies I actually know it was part of my fault for expecting our wed. hangout . booba..I am not young anymore. I am MUCH OLDER than my BF but I know I have lotsa typos, English is not my first language.
but now it evolves till him not really communicating with me. You see, I have not gotten anything from him since Wed. Today is already Sunday..not even a single text nor call.
And no, he has stopped using GTALK chat with me ever since he came back from his Chicago trip that was April 19th.
You know when you are in relationship, Im sure you miss n think of that person. Sometimes I just want to hear from him, even though I know I cannot expect 24/7 on calls.
I just could not understand why he can go for DAYS not even saying Hi to me...one line text message will cause him alot of time or energy???
I woke up this Sunday morning..really wanted to call him and say hi. But I am really holding up now and didnt do it. Didnt even text him. To me he is like totally vanished..I don't know where my so-called BF is, what he is doing. Again, Im saying this not mean I want his log or report of what he is doing every second, But I am somebody...not just a normal friend nor another date [I HOPE]...right?
Throughout the entire relationship I actually still live my life like before..I schedule my own meetups with my own friends...I go out a lot But I think of him where ever I go. I hope to hear from him..a line or two of a text msg will make my day. That is cause he told me we are in a relationship. If he were to tell me Im JUST HIS DATE...I would have other benchmark on how i treat the scenario/relationship. There are diff levels rite?
Before these fights, he told me he will bring me out of town for memorial weekend and I am so looking forward to it. but till now he didnt confirm about his booking of the hotel..to me i am afraid he may cancel it...i am worrying a lot here and there.
To: vashti I am trying to see if any progress shows and that is why I am still investing now...I hope the Memorial weekend trip will happen and hope it will bring us progress and I will then see, how we go from there. That is why I am still investing now
No man is worth your tears, but once you find one that is, he won't make you cry!