heeelp please

[Jinny]

so u r saying im immature. As opposed to what? Women who don't get emotionally attached with anyone, and get scr**** with every male that walks?
That last part about me needing therapy, isn't a bit insensitive? There r many perverts in this world with weird desires. They don't go c a therapist! I m concerned however about repeating that stuff in my future relationships (assuming he's not the beginning and the end). How do i do that? Im attracted to dominating men. it has no logic, i don't conciously intend to be.

[shh!]

I don't even believe this story is for real. Sorry.

[Jinny]

Right, i remember u. I've read your replies to others, u often doubt our honesty. Like i would have any reason to bul**** around with strangers

[Junsui]

No, I said when I was 15 and immature I might have been closer to being obsessed with someone. There aren't just two types, where you are either obsessed to an extreme or you feel nothing for someone. There can be a happy medium there. I'm not sure I know what you mean by a woman who gets screwed with every male that walks. Saying you need therapy wouldn't be insensitve to me. That would be wanting to help you so suggesting you do something that will help you. I'm not sure how that is insensitive. Yes, there are perverts out there. I'm not sure how they apply to you. Of course, you probably aren't consciously choosing men who will treat you like shit (well you might, but I wouldn't think so). That's why I suggested therapy. I love psychologists.

[Junsui]

I don't even believe this story is for real. Sorry.

Maybe so, I just can't help but reply.

[Jinny]

So u love psycologists. Hmm I've reasons to believe that maybe u r one of them

[Debunkt]

Step 1: Leave him. You want advice, to help you? Leave him.
Step 2: Get a restraining order. This guy sounds like a psycho.
Step 3: Get him some professional help.
Step 4: Get yourself some professional help.
Step 5: Find someone who won't be a complete dick to you. You say this guy is your first, well NO SHIT you're attached. When you find someone who doesn't treat you like garbage, I promise you'll be way more attached.

I can't believe this guy is a professor somewhere. He sounds like a moron. And I can't believe that you say you have "feminist ideals". Thats a good one. Unfortunately feminists AREN'T dominated by men. This is seriously ridiculous. We may be harsh, but we're looking out FOR YOU. So do yourself a favor and break contact with this dickbag, whatever it takes.

And Junsui isn't a psychologist, she just has common sense.

[whaywardj]

Jinny, I'm having a problem taking any of your posts seriously. No one can be as whacked out as you seem without careful and deliberate consideration.

[Rosebud]

And as the years passed i got used to it and learnt to enjoy it. So i know ur right but im too addicted to follow logic.

Ok so then how the hell do you expect us to give you advice on any of this if you can't follow logic? This is just the most ridiculous thing I think I have ever heard. You have no respect for yourself what so ever which is why you put up with this bullsh*t. And I can't believe you would ever even think of bringing up and raising a child in that enviroment. For that alone, I'm very disgusted!

[whaywardj]

Now, now. Rosebud. Remember your blood pressure, Sweetie.

[Rosebud]

ok Hayward... I'm calming down... ( breath in, breath out). I'm just a little sensitive when it comes to children... Sorry !!!

[whaywardj]

And well you should be, I'd say. I mean, look at the mess our parents brought us into without our knowledge or consent.

[Rosebud]

LOL..... no kidding!!