agreed...because even though you think it might be helping you get over him in the end i think in your subconcious it's probably just leaving hope there...the longer that hope lasts the longer it'll take to completely get over him.
at least in my opinion!
i JUST started talking to my ex again after 2 months...it's still awkward and i'm taking it slow beause i know i'm still not completely over what happened though i think i'm getting over HIM. if this makes any sense? but we both had decided cutting off contact was for the best for awhile in the beginning because of the hurt...i think it did us some good.