taking back a cheater, in need of advice!!

[theplastickid]

This is all great advice, really applies to my situation. The fact that this kind of thing is so common place if evidence in itself that behaviour patterns are fixed and people are not pliable as we would like to imagine. I have been cheated on and am not able to bring myself to take the person back for the above reason that my ex does not understand the principle herself. Despite me trying to explain it for her...

[BackUpOrGetStng]

It's obvious you're going to take him back. You're an idiot, and disrespectful to those who helped you through. I hope he ****s around on you again.