Originally Posted by
pcmaster
Yeah probably friends and family is the worse on giving sugestions, but even ,neutral people at work and etc. get it totaly wrong from my expierience. Mostly the people who talks about others is the ones who dont have fun private life. The OP can only give one sided explanation on whats going on. So if someone wants help he have to see both of them like a couple like profesionals always do.
From my own expierience you have to confused to ask for advice or even tell about relationship to strangers. In this state even wrong assumption might be believable and therefore wrong actions made.