Porn issues in a relationship - advice needed!

[glitterbunny]

I had this with my ex, he used to watch porn all the time, made me feel so crap!! In the end he just lied about it, it ruined my trust for him, ruined our relationship. In my experience he won't stop , he will just hide it. You can either accept it or move on. I could accept a guy watching it occasionally, i know quite a few girls who would but the amount my ex watched I just couldn't. Guess its up to you and what you thinks acceptable... I guess I learnt though that it didn't mean my ex loved me any less, it didn't mean he didn't care it's just something he liked to do. Good luck xx

[bcgirl]

There R quite a few girls on this forum alone that has been with a porn addict which really shows there is a problem like I stated in my point earlier. Porn is very accessible in this day and age, just a click of a button you are into a world of anything u can fantasize about in the comfort of your own home. And with smart phones now a days, u can go to the washroom to relieve yourself in the middle of your work shift when bored
You are no longer walking into a movie rental place completely embarrassed to rent one x rated DVD. There is no embarrassment or shame because no one will know (except for your gf that snoops into your emails, or your room mate that accidentally walks in). Due to the convenience of access now a days and the unrealistic portrayal of women and sex... It really causes the younger generation problems.

[iamaninnocentma]

Porn addicts, lol. How much porn must you watch before you are considered an "addict". I think i might be on the cusp.

[bcgirl]

The op states their sex life is suffering due to his porn. He doesn't have sex with her as often as he could because he's already relieved himself earlier with porn. Does that count as an addiction? Urning down real sex for masterbation?

[Love'sReject]

Go kill yourself virgin boy.

How about no?

[ttylox]

Porn addicts, lol. How much porn must you watch before you are considered an "addict". I think i might be on the cusp.

Furreals.

I watch porn when my boyfriend is at work and I'm pretty sure he already has his pants half undone when I walk out the door. Pornography addiction is probably a real thing - but then there is also this show on Netflix called "freaky eaters" where people claim they are addicted to things like french fries and burgers. Seriously - this one chick ONLY ate french fries - all day, every day. She wasn't even that fat, either. She cried when the therapist tried to get her to eat a carrot... some people are so hilariously damaged.

Ummm stop snooping in your boyfriends stuff! Deleting an email, uh huh... is that why you looked at his browsing history? The live chat thing is a little freaky but whatevs. Why don't you try asking him if there's anything new he wants to try in bed and go for it. Maybe he's bored of your sex (and NO that doesn't mean he's gonna cheat and NO it doesn't mean that he's bored with YOU)... Dudes like variety. And looking at boobs.

[ivy4111]

This is the first time I snooped in over a year - and I totally wasn't meaning to, but believe what you want. He sat right next to me when I looked at his history, at first it was just because I was curious what he was interested in. I've never gone through his stuff without him knowing. The porn, again, is not the issue. The only time I care is when it's the day we hang out and he has a hard time finishing because he just did a few hours beforehand. The issue on hand is live chatting with a porn star - to me, that's cheating.

[ttylox]

Then he's a cheater. And a liar. And cares more about whacking off to pixels on a screen than pleasing his woman. Drop him.