You two are as immature as each other (burning documents??). If there was an adult in this situation he/she would realize that there is only one important topic here:
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The rest is uncalled for emotional noise.
Don't fight with her! If she wants to go out and sleep with other men, who cares? Too bad for them, lucky for you if they catch her. Support her getting her citizenship if she wants it. That means your kid grows up near you. The fighting is pointless and nobody wins. It's irritating and seems unfair, surely. But life isn't fair and you made this choice, did you not? Now its your responsibilty to deal with it as maturely as possible for the sake of your poor son.
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“Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules. The most any of us can do is to sign on as its accomplice. Instead of vowing to honor and obey, maybe we should swear to aid and abet. That would mean that security is out of the question. The words "make" and "stay" become inappropriate. My love for you has no strings attached. I love you for free.”
― Tom Robbins, Still Life with Woodpecker