My girlfriend cheated on me :/

[Draugydob]

Well I did it! A part of me feels proud but most of me feels horrible. Hardest thing ive ever done
I hope she recovers soon...shes been such a mess all week after what she did...
Blarg.

I know this is for the better.

Thanks for the help everyone, you've been great.

[justcheckin]

U made the right choice.... No matter how hard it is, if a girl EVER cheats on you... you need to just call it what it is. If not she will never learn.... and probably do it again.(if the opportunity arises)

[misombra]

She's only 16 years old. What do you expect? She's still a kid.

[doppelgaenger]

From her
"I feel like I dont deserve you. I know I dont and you can do so much better. ugh. I cant live with myself. This hurts so much...when we were chatting tonight, everytime I smiled, my mind would go back to what I did to you, and I would burst into tears....its not fair to put you through this. "

Does that sound 'typical'? I feel so bad for even sharing her private words with a massive forum...but I really dont know what else to do. Can trust be built back? I want to trust her and just be happy again...Ive read that message so many times...

I fell for that once - my first gf told me that. Naturally it gave me the feeling that I needed to prove her wrong. This kind of girl is very manipulative - it's not easy to get away from her because she is charming and controlling at the same time.

[kitkitkitty]

good lesson for her too.... she was obviously too young to be in an LD relationship and make it work