Is the new love worth it?

[vashti]

I can't see how wanting to leave a relationship because no one is happy(me, girlfriend, kid) makes me 'suck'. Please get all the facts before critcising me. I don't ask for anyone to take my side but please find out the whole story before you cast judgement.

You don't suck because you want to leave her. You suck because you are leaving her because of another woman. Everything else you say is just rationalizing on your part. If you were really all that unhappy before you met the other woman, I bet you'd already be gone.

Besides, you asked for it.