Originally Posted by
dem862
Most young people go for the sexual compatability first. Which is why so many relationships fail. Sex is not enough. It is fun for several moments per day or week, but then the rest of the time you have to deal with the other person's personality and emotional baggage. I look for a woman who has her life together, financially and otherwise, is independent, confident, educated, intelligent, intuitive, drama-free, drug-free, alcohol-free, doesn't smoke, good career, not too many exes, balanced, pleasant, considerate, communicative, funny, has no mental health disorders, 1-2 children if any, good health, good teeth, not on medication, is spiritual but not religious, isn't a gamer or compulsive TV watcher, has hobbies, cooks, likes to travel, and likes plants and cats. Sexy is way down on the list. As a matter of fact, I would prefer she not have had too many sexual partners, yet she should be sensual.