I think it is time for you to find a new girlfriend. One that might want to have sex with you someday. The one you have now does not. She's using you for the feeling of closeness and being desired, but has no desire to follow-through.
I think it is time for you to find a new girlfriend. One that might want to have sex with you someday. The one you have now does not. She's using you for the feeling of closeness and being desired, but has no desire to follow-through.
She's been using you as a PlanB. Do you know what that is? Its when a girl keeps a guy hanging around until someone better comes along. Sorry.
BTW, guys do this to women also. Its not a girl-only behaviour. Go find another girl who wants to have sex with you without all the games.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh