Yes, you are right. It was harsh but the suspicion that she had been cheating on me since day 1 was strong. Even now most people that hear all the facts suspect there is something going on with her boss. I don't think it should end like this, is there a better way? There is always that what if she didn't cheat? What's been done has been done. I was seeking a woman's advice to see what's the best route.