How do I get over her sexual past?

[Bluevetteracer]

OT- Bluevette, what kind of vette do you have? Please don't say "blue". Is it a Z06?

Yes it is a Z-06. It is a Midyear.

[Tone]

Well you have two options, bucko.

#1 - Get over it, move on, and see if you two can work out.

#2 - Don't get over it. Let your insecurities end up being the reason the two of you didn't work out and not something more serious.

It's that simple - the choice is yours.

[ACHTUNG]

If a man was doing all you say she's done, it'd be something to brag about. **** you and the double-standard you're trying to impose on her. Particularly since she had the forthrightness to even tell you about any of it. You're turning her trust in you against her. So, **** you twice.

I agree to a certain extent. But I think that if this thread was written by a female about her boyfriend, it would be the same story. I'm not imposing a double standard here at all.

[shh!]

if SHH would only apply that to U.S. foreign policy she would be a Republican.

Step away from the crack pipe...

[ACHTUNG]

Well you have two options, bucko.

#1 - Get over it, move on, and see if you two can work out.

#2 - Don't get over it. Let your insecurities end up being the reason the two of you didn't work out and not something more serious.

It's that simple - the choice is yours.

I know. I already knew that these are my options. I think I just had to vent to some anonymous people. I didn't want to talk to friends or family.

[Junsui]

This is the root of it. I agree. I'll try really hard to not pass judgement on her. I understand how unfair it is.

Yeah, I kind of agree with Debunkt, but sometimes you can be doing everything you can to make her happy and she's still going to go out and cheat on you.

[Bluevetteracer]

Her sexual past is of no relevance here, but the context in which it happened sure is. The cheating is not a good thing, especial in the bounds of marriage.

I don't know man, don't persecute her for being sexual, it is the trust here that needs to be monitored. Id you let any of this bother you, it will surface, and she will see it, and it will be over.

You have to get over it, go forward forearmed, and just play your hand to the best of your ability.

Good Luck.

[misombra]

i am 120 percent certain, achtung, that if it weren't for this issue, you would find something to not like about her.

[ACHTUNG]

You think she's been with like 50 people?

I have no idea. I don't think that many though.

[ACHTUNG]

i am 120 percent certain, achtung, that if it weren't for this issue, you would find something to not like about her.

How am I suppossed to answer that? What does this have to do with anything that we're talking about here? I love her but I'm worried that eventually she'll get a wandering eye. That's all.

[shh!]

Eventually we ALL get a wandering eye. The thing you need to worry about is whether or not she will act on it.

[Bluevetteracer]

YES, it is Blue

[Bluevetteracer]

Step away from the crack pipe...

Don't worry, I will chisel on you for a while, and then you will thank me for un-plugging you from the Matrix that the DNC has conned you into.

[ACHTUNG]

Eventually we ALL get a wandering eye. The thing you need to worry about is whether or not she will act on it.

Hmm...yes that's my concern.

[shh!]

Don't worry, I will chisel on you for a while,

That sounds vulgar.