have i done something wrong?

[BackUpOrGetStng]

It's clear you've got this girl on a pedestal, and she DOES NOT CARE about you. If someone actually likes you, you don't have to force communication, it just happens. She does not want to see you.

There's a reason we're all saying the same thing. We have been there, and seen the same behavior. Your situation is not special or different. You're obviously going to have to learn the hard way. Enjoy your misery, and let us know how it turns out.

[Jeff12]

Start slowly are interested in this.

[Dakini1]

I think she is seeing other people....or at least another person.
I wouldn't be waiting around to get on with your life. I think you've been relegated to being the fall back position. If you had any priority at all she would make some sort of effort, busy or not....she would be thinking about you all the time, trying to find 5 mins to call. But unfortunately that's not happening. She's not making any effort because your not a priority in her life. The sooner you make her less of a priority the better.