I take the Lounge Lizard approach, myself. If she doesn't come over and sit on my lap, I don't even notice her.
I take the Lounge Lizard approach, myself. If she doesn't come over and sit on my lap, I don't even notice her.
Speak less. Say more.
haha - how's that working for you, whaywardj?
You should teach other guys how to do this and charge for it...your good!!Originally Posted by Bluevetteracer
Aparantly pretty good being that he has no un-met sexual fantacies.Originally Posted by shh!
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
Either that, or he has simply lived out all of his fantasies with just a couple of long-term women... Either way, I guess that is good. I have lots of little fantasies I will probably never live out, but then again, maybe they are better left to the imagination...
The fact that you're built like a greek statue didn't have a thing to do with it, I'm sure...Originally Posted by NeoSeminole
:-D
That's what I thought. I always thought that she would be thrilled with the thought and effort I put in, but she wasn't. Her loss.Originally Posted by shh!
Originally Posted by gHEXjt
If you have to ask, that is a bad sign. That is like making love to women and asking her if it feels good. YOU SHOULD JUST KNOW!.
In case you don't know, we will try and help you out.
You must be cognizant of her feeling all the time. Women are very sensitive to feelings. This does not mean they are fragile, or you have to walk on egg shells or take notes, but you must be able to read the context clues. How often are they smiling, laughing, how do they hold there body, etc, etc.
Is she talking in the third person about the relationship? WOMEN SAY VERY LITTLE THAT MEANS NOTHING; THEY THINK ABOUT EVERY WORD THEY SAY OR DON'T SAY. Guys just babble and we don't read too much into it. You must not make this mistake in interpreting what women say and do.
Now, to find out what floats her romantic boat? You must quietly observe her and the details of your relationship. You cannot force a romantic scene, but you can darn well learn to realize when one pops up, and take advantage of it.
Romance can also be spontaneous.
I called a girl that I had been dating for a while, and when I called, I acted like it was my first time calling her and asking her out.
Story-
Hi, this is "so and so" from school, not sure if you remember me, but we have 3rd hour study hall together, and I was kinda wondering if you would like to go out Friday night, that is if I can borrow my dad Buick and all, that is if you want to, not that you have to, but I was just wondering if you would go out with me.
Now, I have not been in high school for 12 years, so it was funny, she played along and she said, "I have to call my girlfriends and I will call you back". Her girlfriend called me back and said she would go out with me on Friday. I did not have to ask her out, we were already going out, the date was implied, but this made it fun. I even took my dads Buick. I showed up with some flowers and candy, even styled my hair retro early 90's. She laughed and we had a fun time with it. At the movie, I acted like I was shy to touch her and then pulled the old stretch the arms trick to put my arm around her. She laughed out loud.
The point is, you just have to be creative, and learn how to have fun and make a special moment for you loved one. Love is like a person, it needs attention, love and caring, or it will wither up and die.
Last edited by Bluevetteracer; 24-09-05 at 09:08 AM.
You should teach other guys how to do this and charge for it...your good!!
EVERY MAN NEEDS TO READ THE FOLLOWING BOOK -
HOW TO SUCCEED WITH WOMEN
AND EVERY WOMEN NEEDS TO READ
THE RULES VOL. I
If you wan to attract nice, caring, romantic men, that are the real deal, that is the secret.
Pretty good, actually. There's a lot of women out there who wonder what the hell's wrong with them that I'm not paying them any attention, and are damned well determined to find out. When I'm in a mercenary enough mood to exploit it, it cuts down on a lot of air-time chatting and puts something of an urgent edge to the sac time. They put me in headlocks, and shit like that. One woman actually grabbed me by the throat, straddled over me naked and shoved my face into her crotch, dragged me from the bedroom to bathroom, leaned me backwards on the floor over the toilet bowl, and threatened to pee in my mouth while I was giving her head.Originally Posted by shh!
Evidently, inattention prompts some women to anger ****s quite handily.
Guess I run with a somewhat different crowd than Bluevette.
Last edited by whaywardj; 24-09-05 at 09:19 AM.
Speak less. Say more.
You have stolen any bit of innocence I had left...Originally Posted by whaywardj
I bookmarked this thread ^_^
I picture romance on a blanket having a nice picnic and some wine. Laying together just the two of you and just talking to eachother about what you love about the other one and then kissing eachother and holding eachother. Picking her flowers and giving them to her. There are all kinds of things you can do for your mate that says you care and think of her.
Ummm, W? I'm with Shh! on this one. That is just weird. Not even animalistic, as it requires too much forethought. Bizzare women you screw...Originally Posted by shh!