You just do not understand. We are young, she has been with me since she was 16. I have no problem if we spend 12 months apart if it means we spend the rest of our lives together. I am not an 'addition to her collection of accessories', I would rather you not pretend to know what is happening. We are still going to be communicating whilst she is overseas, we will just not have the committment there, it is too difficult. And I agree with that.