Personally, I am very open-minded. I look at how compatible I am with my gf, not at her past. The only thing she needs to tell me is if she has a disease. Then *I* make the choice of whether to be intimate with her. I also want to know about her emotional baggage which might interfere with the relationship. Most baggage does interfere at some point.
Everyone has their values. I don't judge a person's past, because people can change over time. But I look at how they are in the present. I personally have change a lot in the past 20 years, for the better.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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