I'll be honest and admit that I've seriously considered a number of times that real love is not out there. I mean, how many times do we read classic novels like The Great Gatsby and Wuthering Heights where the love doesn't end up lasting and listen to breakup songs on the radio? It seems a bit far-fetched, doesn't it? But, in all honesty, for every time that I considered it's not out there, I knew in my heart that it is. What gives me hope is not the celebrities or the works of fiction but the elderly couples still holding hands at bingo and the stories on the news about men dying to protect the women they loved. In the end, that is what you must remember- that it is out there. Everyone is interacting with one another, and it's bringing you closer and closer to the one you love. All you have to do is believe. You never know what will happen.
In my case, I'm sure that the man I will spend the rest of my life is out walking this Earth right now. I don't know his name, but I know that when it happens, it will be right. Remind yourself of that as well- that she's out there and that it will be right for you when it happens. Just keep hope.