Open Mouth, Insert Foot

[pcmaster]

Seen similar scenario where girl is controloing and basicaly a first serious GF for a guy. Sometimes she was dominating sometimes him but in the end they love keeped them together and they did benefit from each other. 4 years is not a joke there must be some magic behind that thats for sure, maybe its better for your bro to be together with her rather than single. In mean time be a man and stand up for yourself dont let her or any other stupid girl roll over you by any means.

[Rowen]

Yeah, I agree with that which is pretty much why I've been so torn. I don't want to make him unhappy by making him think he's completely unwelcome with her around me, but at the same time, I don't want to see him get stepped on. So, I guess if it comes up, I'll tell him what I think and just leave it at that. In the end, it's still his life, and he still needs to do what he feels is best for him. :S Just because he's married to her doesn't mean we have to like each other, of course. But it does mean that we have to be civil unless our views are asked for.