Why do men always want to rush to the sex rather than some good foreplay beforehand??

[daletom]

Most guys i've dated always seem to want to go straight to sex all the time...rather than warming us girlies up first. Men dont realise that it takes longer for a woman to get all hot n bothered and up to the stage of orgasm than it does for a man...im sure im not the only one..whats everyone elses experieces and views?

Do what my wife learned to do for me the first few years of marriage, when she wanted long foreplay before we started the f***k: learn to give him a quick "mercy release" just as soon as the foreplay starts. Make him understand that this is going to happen, and it's better for BOTH of you if he doesn't resist it. Then you'll have plenty of time for mutual foreplay before he slides it into you, and he'll also last longer after he's inside.

[Innova]

Wait, I said something similar earlier in the thread.

[Canibus]

Its just being downright lazy thats all