Hey guys, thanks for your advice
Yeah im not clear what he is actually doing, he did say to me he was at his males friends house last night. We have a joint bank account and he's only spent 30 pounds which was spent yesterday morning on an x box game so I dont think hes out and about going for drinks etc. But ive had a decent night sleep last night and have woken up feeling a lil better about the situation and have been thinking about trust and even if he did come back would I be able to trust him etc? The answers more than likely no. Plus ive gotta prepare myself for him not returning because he told me he isnt in love with me anymore, that cant just change so even if he did wanna come back what is his reason? Probably because he missed his home comforts and the kids not me though. So its just accepting it and getting on with my life. I'm heartbroken and things remind me hes not here all the time, like our 14 month old hears the postman and he thinks its daddy But what can I do if he doesnt love me aymore? I cant force him to