Then why did you ask us to do just that... Judge her? You said this:And then when the majority agrees that yes, she does sound like an "OVERLY" attached gf, you come back and say you're "shocked" What the hell?While I do think she is very nice and furthermore - good looking, I also fear that she is one of those "overly attached girlfriends"
What obvious reasons.. there are no visible obvious reasons why you should only mention the crap side of someone with whom you are contemplating having some sort of relationship with.For obvious reasons, I only mentioned the "bad" sides of this girl,
Seems you can't even name the good sides because you don't know what they are considering you don't even know her past whats she told you.. which are only words.but it doesn't take a genius to realize that people have good sides as well; good sides that can actually conquer the negative sides.
and what everyone is trying to tell you is: Don't think a person you've only know a week is sane when they ask you to marry them after a week. Even asking after a week and never even meeting is rather disconcerting to emotionally mature, non-dysfunctional individuals.What I am trying to say is: don't patronise a person you have never met, never spoken to or never listened to.If you don't see our point, we honestly pity your emotional immaturity and overly romanticism of your contact with this girl.If you do not see my point, I honestly pity your narrow-mindness.
thank you for the opportunity. O.oOnce again, thanks for taking the time to reply!