What did you expect when you fessed up that you are a cheater? A high five and a "Way to go on the infidelity, better luck next time!"
People who point fingers usually have 2 point back at that them. Peace out, hooker.
What did you expect when you fessed up that you are a cheater? A high five and a "Way to go on the infidelity, better luck next time!"
People who point fingers usually have 2 point back at that them. Peace out, hooker.
So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
blue skies from pain.
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?
this entire thread is hilarious. ha!
I was hoping she would come back- this thread was actually starting to get entertaining. It was so ridiculous and funny I came back to read it one more time. lol!
brooklyngirl-
Sometimes you have to filter out the moral majority above. I understand what you are going through. I'm taking a break from an intense online relationship. Being married is difficult at times...the best advice is to fix what you have or leave it. I decided to fix my marriage and have started breaking off contact with the online lover. The amount of time spent online with her was enormous- 5 to 8 hours just hanging out. There was no tawdry online sex or whatever is going through people's minds as they judge what I am saying. Skype with a webcam is a very powerful way in which to communicate with someone in another country. The impossibility of every meeting each other was the elephant in the room. All relationships start with a conversation and end with a conversation. I suggest stepping back, refocus your energies, and enjoy the relationship for what it was...if you want it to continue and he doesn't...find someone else who appreciates you. Again, have the conversation with your husband on how you feel and what you want from him. Don't discuss your online relationship(s) with him. I hope that helps. As for the rest of the people who have decided to judge, shame on you.
I've been cheated on and there was a period of time where I was severely depressed. I wouldn't wish how I felt on my worst enemies. In order to be in a relationship, you have to be strong and not be so weak. IMO, people who cheat are weak because they give into every temptation.
I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.
You're upset we're judging you? Really? What did you expect. You knew your friends & family wouldn't support this "relationship" you had behind your HUSBANDS back.. so why would a bunch of people on the internet?
Cheating is disgusting. If you're that unhappy in your marriage-- end it. That simple.
And also, if you're preaching "total honesty" & "forgiveness" -- when are you planning on telling your husband? I mean.. that would be the honest thing to do wouldn't it? If you put in half the effort you've put into your "online affair" into your marriage, I'm sure you'd be in better shape.
It's very hard to find any admirable qualities in an activity based entirely on selfishness, betrayal and deceit.
Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.
Hmmm...A bunch of you have been cheated on? Now, you're upset at anyone who has or is thinking of doing so? I guess my question would be- "Why did your lovers leave you for another? Hmmmmmm...
Really? Yeah.. blame the person who got cheated on, not the person who made the conscious decision to step out of the committed relationship they were in.
You're being ridiculous.
No one makes their significant other cheat. If a person is that unhappy in a relationship and "wanting to leave so bad" -- then they should LEAVE. End the relationship. Case closed.
Stepping out of the relationship, lying about it, and carrying on an affair is disgusting. Plain & simple.