I completely agree with girl68, here! The touch barrier is a HUGE deal.
I think guys need to start taking into account that girls tend to be more naturally considerate than guys. I say this because many female friends of mine are thoughtful enough to bring tea (from Tim Horton's of course ) to a study date, to pay for lunch when we go out sometimes, to buy the popcorn at the theatre... these things DO happen with girls, much more regularly than they do among guys. The importance being most girls are not naturally inclined to think of nice gestures as immediately romantic. It would be as strange to me as assuming that my best friend has a crush on me because she grabbed our tab at the pub one night!
Guys are ALWAYS bitching about not being "mind-readers", so, in this case, don't expect us to be, either.