How to reconnect with a guy you broke it off with

[lahnnabell]

Gem, everyone here is subject to a very blunt assessment of their person and their situation. You came off as rather selfish assuming that this guy would want to invest more time in you after you already shut him down. I say let him move on with his life. It was a lesson learned for both of you. Take it like that.

[SirWagginston]

The biggest reason for getting advice online is that people will be honest, because they're not afraid to hurt your feelings.