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  1. #16
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    Re: need help

    Quote Originally Posted by surajgrg083 View Post
    The thing here is that both of our family knows about us. Her family were happy with our relation and had agreed to get us married. The problem is that my family did not accept it. As i had stated before that if i am to marry her then i would have to go against "my family".
    The line about me being pissed off is not valid.
    Can you reason with your family? Are they open to discussion and listening to what you want?

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    Ask you mother who she would like to betroth you to and then get to know her. Soon enough the girl you were not meant to be married to will fade from your memory. But... only if you allow that to happen. You whining that you can't have a girl that your parents have not chosen for you is only going to keep you stagnated in your want of her. Resign yourself to the fact that a relationship with her is no longer possible and stop falling in love with woman that you know your parents won't approve of. You are your own worst enemy.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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