Guys who date younger women

[pinkscorpion]

Are you kidding? I know WAY more younger women with emotional baggage than older women.

IMO, usually older women have sorted their shit out already while girls are in their early 20s are still crying over a couple of mean comments from high school.

[CAM]

Are you kidding? I know WAY more younger women with emotional baggage than older women.

IMO, usually older women have sorted their shit out already while girls are in their early 20s are still crying over a couple of mean comments from high school.

Yeah, I know girls (now women) who are in their 40's and are STILL insecure. One of them--she was a very bookish girl who was once plain-looking but who grew up to be an attractive woman--would hardly even talk to me at the 20 year high school reunion because I had the temerity to once have been an 18 year old boy who was fascinated with the DD's attached to the head cheerleader for the football team.

I kept on saying, "Stacy...look, forgive me for once having the raging hormones of a 18 year old American boy who liked big boobs. Get over it already and let's move on."

Moral of the story: Many older women are still insecure teenage girls inside. Same goes for older men, except that many of the studs in high school have lost their hair and developed bellies...that does sober a man to reality...just a bit

[LailaK]

I think it's just a preference thing. Nothing wrong with that. I refuse to date men over 30. I won't even consider it. They are far too serious and not as fun. I'm not interested in marriage and kids and guys over 30 usually have that somewhere in their mind if they don't have kids already.

Everyone has a preference.

[CAM]

I think it's just a preference thing. Nothing wrong with that. I refuse to date men over 30. I won't even consider it. They are far too serious and not as fun. I'm not interested in marriage and kids and guys over 30 usually have that somewhere in their mind if they don't have kids already.

Everyone has a preference.

Not even me? LOL

Yeah, it is just a preference thing. I completely agree. And, it is one of the few choices we have in our private lives.

I refuse to date...anymore. I won't even consider it. The women in my region are far into themselves and not fun at all. You did notice that I was paraphrasing your comments...point being that one could easily export your comments on men to women in the 30-40 range, too.

BTW, the women who are over 30 are often very much interested in getting very serious and having kids because their eggs are running on empty. They are very career oriented and want the guys to take care of the kids...so they marry or shack up with guys in their 40s and 50s who are going through a midlife crisis, have made money, and want to have a child before they keel over. So, the deal is: he gets his kid and she gets a stay-at-home retired wealthy father who will often cook dinner, subsidize her career dreams, yet never question her choices.

Again, just a choice.

[Moe]

Depends what you want. I've learned most of what I know about sex from older women' two inparticular, one was just off the charts she took me places I didn't know existed. Married and dated younger ones though. I find the older to be much calmer and much more patient.
Since I'm single again I do believe I'm going to look old. More secure.

[CAM]

Depends what you want. I've learned most of what I know about sex from older women' two inparticular, one was just off the charts she took me places I didn't know existed. Married and dated younger ones though. I find the older to be much calmer and much more patient.
Since I'm single again I do believe I'm going to look old. More secure.

Also, most of the younger women these days don't even know how to act, walk, dress like women. No offense, but they're often a total turn off. Some think "feminine" means dress like a slut. Others just don't give a shit.

Always fun to go to a graduation and watch the female students try to walk in high heels... their ankles are all raw because they don't know how to walk. They don't wear slips so their dresses don't flow correctly. The make up is the total street-walker look. It is funny to watch many young women (20s and 30s) pretend to be women.

I agree--I'd rather date an older woman, if I were to date ever again. No need to get married. A nice dinner, a conversation, a nice kiss, a nice dance. That's enough.

[CAM]

But, of course, the younger ones all know "how to make love like a pornstar"...I think that must be their personal bible. And, they wear their tramp stamps and STDs like badges of honor.

[chump4u]

Are you kidding? I know WAY more younger women with emotional baggage than older women.

IMO, usually older women have sorted their shit out already while girls are in their early 20s are still crying over a couple of mean comments from high school.

I would characterize a typical young woman's high-school shallowness, bad-boy fixation, and lack of human empathy (as examples) as personality defects and character flaws, not emotional baggage.

Those defects and flaws inevitably cause young women to make an endless string of stupid and disastrous mistakes in their lives, especially in their relations with men.

Which leads to the emotional baggage that most single older women have, which manifests itself as a deep-seated, intractable determination to make the rest of the world-- and especially any man unlucky enough to get near her-- pay for her mistakes.

[Charlie Boy II]

I really don't think it's insecurity or anything sinister like a desire to manipulate. It's pretty much just animal attraction. Younger girls are firm and hot, that's the appeal. But you pay for that in other areas, of course.

[CAM]

Just like the gym 20 minutes ago. There I am working out and there's this young'un making a point of doing reverse sit ups for her lower back right in front of me. I move to another piece of equipment and she ends up putting out a mat right in front of me to do some stretching. I go to another equipment room. She follows.

We talked for a bit. Very firm young woman. BUT she's a 20 something who's totally insecure with her body. Youth wasted on the young...she sees fat where none exists. She sees imperfection in her body when she's slim and healthy. She wears glasses and she hates them. If only she knew how much nicer they made her look. But she's young--she doesn't know the subtleties yet. Dealing with the insecurities would drive one completely nuts. Getting involved with her would be immoral and stupid. Some lucky young guy will meet her.

[qwertz]

I don't think the age difference mentioned by the original poster is at all unusual, or even bothersome. Men tend to like to date younger because they either lack the maturity of their counterparts, or are intimidated by the expectations of a woman their age. Younger women tolerate more shit, in other words. For example, a guy in their 30s with no job? Younger girl - no problem. "he'll get back on his feet." Older woman - "loser." No car? Younger girl might say "I don't mind driving.". Older one will say "loser." A man who doesn't pay child support? Younger girl "he would love MY kids more". Older one will say "loser". Younger girls lack the life perspective to understand what they are settling for, whereas an older one is more likely to go in with their eyes wide open, and won't make excuses for his shortcomings. It's a lot of pressure, I suppose, if you aren't up to par.

Still, I don't see the problem. It's not like he is seeking out teenagers.

Im glad i dont have the attitude of someone young like that!

There's always the hope that a younger woman will not drag an immense weight of emotional baggage with her.

You obviously dont know me, 22 and more emotional baggage than a passenger plane. lol

[Coco]

Sounds like some of you are describing a young "Teenager" and not a young adult woman.

[Charlie Boy II]

You obviously dont know me, 22 and more emotional baggage than a passenger plane. lol

It's so crazy you're only 22, considering where you're at. At 22 I was still a kid.

[shheadz]

I'm 33 and always end up dating girls that are around 25. My ex was 21. The girl I'm messing around with now is 21. Honestly I'm just dating girls at my own maturity level. I may be 33, but everyone thinks I'm 25. I look it, I dress like it, and I act like it. When I see a girl that's 21-27.. I feel like I'm looking at someone my own age, if that makes any sense.

There's no deeper plot to take advantage of younger girls, or anything else people here are suggesting.

[qwertz]

It's so crazy you're only 22, considering where you're at. At 22 I was still a kid.

Well its certainly not what i had in mind for when i was 22!
But i guess life is what you make it. Hey at least by the time im 30 i will (hopefully) have dealt with all my emotional baggage and still be relatively good looking! lol