yeah, the society is going toward express true feeling and consequently, they're saying we're more and more absorbed in ourself and dont give a damn care about other
Example: you're all alone somewhere and you look for somebody for comfort. They did the right thing, do not lie to you that they care but then you yourself feel bad... You might not care about the people who come for u for comfort now but someday you might be there and if u would experience the same thing, what will u feel?
I just feel like there's no right choice here, if u dont comfort them, they will feel unloved (some people commit suicide because of this) but then again, you dont care...and why should you care? I think just let them down gently if u have nothing to say, just be there and hold their hands when it's needed. You might not feel any thing for them or share their pain. But you know it's hard on them. People can feel comforted from just that.
Just dont do it because u expect them to do the same though... U comfort them knowing when they get better, they wont probably do the same for u
I dont care about other's problem too. But if somebody come to me for comfort, i'll stick around and just be present.
Last edited by valhensing; 25-09-10 at 03:03 PM.
keep it simple
Self-esteem isn't bragging about how great you are. It's more like quietly knowing that you're worth a lot (priceless, in fact!). It's not about thinking you're perfect — because nobody is — but knowing that you're worthy of being loved and accepted.
"Me, I try to send this note
float it like a paper boat
But paper sinks
and words are weak
i try, but i cant speak"