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HDBadger
First of all, you're both in grad school, so if you did have a lot of free time to spend together, I'd say you aren't working hard enough.
Second, yes, I would talk to him about your feelings. And I would also be prepared for him not to take it well and possibly break up with you. As a man, it gets old really fast dealing with a woman who is difficult to satisfy and needs a lot of attention.
Should you try to get everything you want in a relationship? Yes. But no relationship is perfect, and you may risk this one (which otherwise sounds healthy) by criticizing the guy for something he doesn't even know he's doing (or not doing).
You just sound like the type of person who can't go very long without affection and needs constant affirmation. He sounds nothing like that. That's where the problem is.