This can be fun and add a little spice to things. ive done this, just bought simple things, a blind fold, a whip feathers and the dust shit. I blind folded him, and taunted him with senses. Its fun! doesnt have to be over the top for first timers. It does so much to the person receiving it. And for the person giving. I like the feeling Im giving my husband. Im not into the hard core stuff, but heightening his awareness is the fun of it all.
everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.