Well, I asked a family member of mine that works for the dept of Social Services here, just to get a correct answer. She told me that there are way more children in foster care that are waiting to be adopted. I was then given this website which you can check out for yourself.
http://www.adoptamericanetwork.org/waiting-children/
That's in the US.
I dont know where the OP is and even if I did it wouldn't change my opinion. What is so bad about her situation that she should pass off the responsibility? I just don't see why two educated, stable adults cant love, raise and look after their own children. They can sit down and work thru their problems. You just look and see all those other kids who really need it. Just because you're a single parent isn't the end of the world. Its what you make of it. If a person keeps laying up having them, then yes it will be hard and selfish and dumb on their part. The baby wont be lacking anything if they both do their parts in the childs life.