I've ruined it cause im one of thoes drunk girls? - i swear im not

[derm]

If I were him and a girl was comming on a bit heavy like that, texting me every 5 minutes [especially when I'm in the 'getting to know her' period] I'd loose respect and interest pretty quickly and might act the very same way.

Give him some space and let him do some chasing for a change

[ElleHall]

yeah i think thats great advice. why is it so hard to do that. i hate waiting.

[derm]

Guess we're all impatient when it comes to that sort of thing.

I hate waiting to make sure a girl really likes me before I ask her out BUT it's something I gotta do, or I could end up making a fool of myself.

This might sound really old fashioned [and it probably is] but as much as society has evolved and the role of wemon has changed over the centuries. Guys still like to do the chasing initally rather than be chased.