Originally Posted by
clintsgirl
Another thing Lite ... you make a wonderful point, about being on "there terms". I just honestly dont get it, how do u expect me to believe you, when you tell me you love me, your attacted to me, but you are just in a "sex slump" OH MY GOSH!!! I cant take it anymore
Right, ask my ex wife why I divorced her... She'll list a bunch of reasons that make me look bad (and are true), none about herself and the one she won't ever list is, She wouldn't sleep with me. Married 2 years, she slept w/ me 5 times including the wedding night and honeymoon...
If everything you have listed is 100% accurate and true, then you need to kick his ass to the curb, or at least stop making his life so comfy. One of my friends called it a "Cleaning strike" where she would let the house get messy until he was so fed up, that he cleaned it. Only, she'd tell him she was on strike first.
Maybe he needs counseling, but the truth is he cannot be bothered to sleep with you... Because of whatever reason it is that is bugging him. Chances are he's depressed and doing anything he can to avoid responsibility, and output of energy. Which, isn't your fault. But you're also not holding him responsible for his end of tending to things.
"Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."