Unsure what to do!

[Airborne]

Depends to be honest, there is nothing wrong with taking a risk in business because the rewards may well pay off

But yes I would analyse the risks beforehand!

[buzz bee]

sometimes you have to take a chance.. it may sound a little cliqued but it is better to take a chance and be knocked back or to have your heart broken than to take the easy way out and spend the rest of your life wondering what could of been

[whaywardj]

"But yes I would analyse the risks beforehand!"

Then why invest your heart without also doing the same? Relationships are, largely, crap shoots in the first place. But not discussing the pros and cons of your respective personality traits with each other before you make an emotional investment in each other is like throwing die loaded to lose.

Talk WITH her about YOUR concerns. DON'T talk AT her about HER qualities.

[buzz bee]

sounds more like a business proposal than a relationship.... what ever happened to romance....

[Tone]

Listen to Hayward, Airborne. He speaks the truth.

[whaywardj]

sounds more like a business proposal than a relationship.... what ever happened to romance....

Since when does romance have to be blind?

[Junsui]

Since when does romance have to be blind?

Good question!

[Airborne]

When romance is blind it always ends in pain for one of the parties, I have seen it happen to many of my friends, they enter a relationship dream world which in the end cannot cope with reality. Though if you enter with eyes fully open then that is not so good either.

Well hayward she seems to be getting rid of my doubts because while most of the time when i talk to her on msn and texting that sort of thing she is boring, when we are together she is an awesome person to be with. I'm thinking of giving it another week or so before asking her out, but I think we would be good together. Though I am having doubts about whther or not she still wants to go out with me, I think she does still though. May have to use some covert operatives, lol.