Am I Wrong?

[MerryH]

SO I'm here asking you all what you think? Does anyone have any right to be upset with me here?

Uh, I mean, yeah, in a typical monogamous relationship, you'd be overstepping boundaries and/or being creepy. But with a polyamorous relationship, none of us can tell you what boundaries are okay. So I guess you should ask your girlfriend? Strange concept, right?

[MerryH]

Are ya still married?

Oh goddamn. Just looked at his post history and remembered who he is. That guy.

Do you have a job yet? Have you contacted any resources to help your children? Did you ever get any of your shit together?

[MerryH]

Does anyone have any right to be upset with me here?

Yes. All of us who tried to help you last time you were here crying about your pathetic situation.

[EmptyChurch]

Sorry....I meant girls. To me, if I were in an open relationship, all options would be open. But I guess you do need to respect her wishes just out of respect. Personally, I don't know how one can love another person which you know will never be yours? You will always take 2 nd place to her husband. Don't you feel kind of like a chump knowing she will never love you with all her heart ? Just saying

She's in the same position as I am. I am not single, so she's sharing me with someone else too. So, no I don't feel like a chump. The playing field is level.

[EmptyChurch]

Are ya still married?

I'm not married, nor was I ever married. I think you're confused. I have a girlfriend who I've been with for 20 years.

[EmptyChurch]

Oh goddamn. Just looked at his post history and remembered who he is. That guy.

Do you have a job yet? Have you contacted any resources to help your children? Did you ever get any of your shit together?

I mentioned in my other threads that I can't work because I an recovering from some severe medical problems. I won't be able to go back to work until this fall. So no, I guess I don't have my shit together.