Charlie Boy's Thread (Last Lay)

[Miss hotty]

i put Fantastic, literally. It was a masturbation fantasy.

[Gribble]

She's not a sex fiend like I am. She's self conscious about those things. Modesty and "self-respect" are things she values. This is a result of her upbringing. She seems to enjoy more the emotional aspect of sex than the physical aspect. I'm more of a "in the moment" kind of guy and I seek out the most intense pleasures I can find.

Plus, all these things are just a matter of trust and time. She's not adverse to sex before marriage, but I know I can't just jump into things. Part of me loves the "challenge". I love anticipation. I love the intense feeling of desire that can build. Like cooking when I'm hungry and after 2 hours of prepping, finally getting to sit down and taste the fruits of my labor~Euphoria.

You know what worked for me in high school? When I met one of those girls with morals and crap I'd give her this crazy spiel about how sex isn't about pleasure. It's not about lust or animal desires. It's all about a man expressing his love for a woman. And stickin' my winky in you is how I express that love, so finish off your vodka and spread those thighs, baby.

Uhm. I think alcohol was the key to me losing my virginity. Lots and lots of alcohol. You should give it a try.

[anachronistic]

a man is only as good as his word, gribble.

when i say something like that to a female, i mean it, and i don't need no alcohol.

[vashti]

Maybe Gribble really means it at the moment he says it.

[Junket]

Maybe Gribble really means it at the moment he says it.

The moment is all that matters.

Lil'wing, why do you think it's imperative to a relationship to reiterate your affection/devotion to somebody?

People change, but in case they haven't, this needs to be expressed.

Otherwise a person may say "I love you", once and never have to say it again.

[anachronistic]

The moment is all that matters.

Lil'wing, why do you think it's imperative to a relationship to reiterate your affection/devotion to somebody?

People change, but in case they haven't, this needs to be expressed.

Otherwise a person may say "I love you", once and never have to say it again.

i think it is a way to feel loved. it is shown in more ways than just saying 'i love you'. it goes as far as 'your hair looks pretty' and other compliments, you know. even when the love is obvious it is nice to hear such things, however i don't find it necessarily 'imperative' that affection be reiterated.

[Junket]

however i don't find it necessarily 'imperative' that affection be reiterated.

How could it not be imperative?

Does your mother love you?

I know that may be questionable, especially for you.

But what if she acted more on her affections towards you, wouldn't you think there would be less of a doubt?

[Gribble]

I think it should be reiterated. However, words mean jack. You can say "I love you" until you're blue in the face and it doesn't mean a damn thing. It's all in the actions.

[anachronistic]

How could it not be imperative?

Does your mother love you?

I know that may be questionable, especially for you.

But what if she acted more on her affections towards you, wouldn't you think there would be less of a doubt?

there have been relationships of mine where we didn't speak of love often, but we both really liked eachother.

i'm not sure if my mother loves me, you are correct. there is a lot of confusion because of the way she acts, and when she says 'i love you' to me it goes through one ear and out the other without a thought because her actions disprove it.

if her behavior changed, i would still be in doubt, but had she always acted more onher affections, yes there would be less.

[DoesntMatter]

I think I may have had the best sex of my entire life last night.

I used to hear all of these jokes and allusions to women in their 30's wanting younger men, like in their early 20's. My experience has shown that to be some kind of urban myth. My boyfriend (mid-thirties) is so much better in bed than any 20-something guy I ever slept with.

What did he do to make it good sex Giga? You obviously don't need to tell me, but I'm really curious.

[misombra]

i put damn good. definitely not top ten material but it's always pretty good.

[Charlie Boy II]

Oi! Fags! Take that talk about what saying "I love you" means outside. This thread's about ****ING! Not love, but ****ING, and rating that ****ing.

8/10 ----> Woke up to a good morning romp with the missus. First time we'd had sex in a week, an empty house, a rock hard erection. She rode me for most of it.

We've christened my penis "He-Man: Master of the Universe" but only when it becomes a pulsing erection. Otherwise it's just "Adam - Prince of Eternia".

Now when we're getting ready to have sex I yell out:

"By the power of Grayskull - I have the POWERRRRRR" and sing the theme song as I become erect.

It turns her pussy into a raging battle cat.

Don't know what I'm on about? See for yourself:

[URL="http://youtube.com/watch?v=JEsHUel04dY"]http://youtube.com/watch?v=JEsHUel04dY[/URL]

[vashti]

Pretty impressive, charlieboy, but I don't know how it is possible to orgasm when you are doubled over in laughter.

[misombra]

i love he-man. you would have to have the greatest penis in the world for me to call you he-man master of the universe.

...if it's really really big i just might call it excalibur.

[Gigabitch]

What did he do to make it good sex Giga? You obviously don't need to tell me, but I'm really curious.

I refer you to Charlie Boy's post, above. Being really comfortable together is important. Someone who takes sex too seriously makes it really hard to relax, and that limits my capacity for pleasure.

Another thing is that he's paid very close attention to what I like (and I've made sure to make it pretty obvious) and is trying very hard to make sure that I have a great time. He exercises great control. He cares about being good in bed.