What you are doing is not having sex....and you want to be with a virgin. Nothing wrong with that.
And also I never believed in sex casually. I was raised with morals and even though I never carried on with the whole "sex after marriage" stuff....it doesn't mean that I sleep around for the sake of having sex with as many people as possible. I just don't think its fair to assume that of everyone...even though yes there are alot of people out there like that.
I don't blame you for being bitter. Its a tough cruel world....and it literally sucks. Sometimes I think I was born in the wrong decade. But what can you do? People's idea of romance has changed.....things move faster now. I don't agree with it all but I just choose to avoid being in situations like that and focus on people who are more on the same level with me ...in terms of sex and relationships.