so i broke up with my bf

[Primo]

there isnt any way for us to be together again at all isnt it? If i go back, he would just live like what he's doing now, wouldnt he?

Oh brother...my prediction? You'll be back together soon

[qwertz]

DONT go back to him

[valhensing]

i sure do think about it from time to time but well, i still know what's good for us. But if i do, i'll tell you guys before hand or just after that lol

[valhensing]

i still want some more condolences...

[kms]

You are doing the right thing. Kudos. Some people like your BF need to hit rock-bottom and have their legs kicked out from under them before they will get off their ass.

Sucks for you, b/c your relationship is the sacrifice required for his epiphany, but sometimes I think people come into each others lives for just this purpose.

Keep growing Val, you are doing a great job. Perhaps one day, your ex will thank you for what you did for him. Like kms. But don't expect it, tough love is a hard pill for many to swallow.

Well said. Quite a bit more succint than what I wrote. And that is very true - not everyone will appreciate what the other did (intentionally or not) for them... they may just continue in their ways and blame the other person for the rest of their lives. But that's their loss - a valuable opportunity missed to grow and make life that much better.

[valhensing]

i dont understand. His gf left him and he still dont do anything. Still playing computer game i suppose. And he's packing to go back my country i think. I cannot be more devastated

[qwertz]

i still want some more condolences...

you split up, nobody died.

[Petit Papillon]

The worst thing after breaking up with somebody is to cry over Yourself. And You surely do it. It's just pathetic You know Be a (wo)man for fuks sake. He was a loser, You finished it ,done, NEXT.

[shheadz]

i dont understand. His gf left him and he still dont do anything.

The change isn't going to happen over night.

[Gigabitch]

I'm glad you realized you can't polish a turd.

Now fold up your little tea towel and get on with your fabulous, wonderful life. You won't miss him for long.

[Perryville]

So you kicked your BF to the curb, like a used gum wrapper, and during the Christmas Holidays , too!! What a world.....what a world.

[Perryville]

Why can't we all learn to just love one another, and make every day the best day it can be?.........The preceeding is brought to you by the Church of Scientology. Really Val, this dude is a total waste, and you will find a man , who will float your boat much higher in the water, than him.

[Gigabitch]

So you kicked your BF to the curb, like a used gum wrapper, and during the Christmas Holidays , too!! What a world.....what a world.

He won't even notice. He's a boob.

[Perryville]

He does seem to have a higher than normal dork component.

[jsulley]

his grey matters don't seem very well put in place. the girl's trying to screw back the loose nuts for him... a frustrating situation, yes, but it happens