Originally Posted by
blue102
Here is the recap:
I have a friend I have chatted with online for over two years.
Our relationship was "flirty" and he has said he wanted to marry me if my husband ever left, but he was probably joking. Anyhow, there is a mutual attraction. I have never met him in real life.
He never called me. So here is the awkward part.
I asked him where our "relationship" was going.
LOL! The bold parts tell us all we need to know, kids.
Okay, now for your questions. They are moot, but since you are asking, and we're answering, feel free to send the forum a PayPal donation. Thanks in advance.
What I need to know is:
- Why did he want to visit me? -- FOR SEX
- Why did he stop talking to me on IM? -- NO SEX FOR HIM
- Why did he say he can't break up my marriage? We are just friends. -- HE MIGHT ACTUALLY BE A DECENT GUY WHO RESPECTS MARRIAGE?
- Is he in love with me?? -- NO
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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