Yea the subject line and the actual content of the post are not related. What is yr gut saying anyways? Damn dude the girls I date would never send a text like that because they obviously drink more than this girl. The fact she can't handle her alcohol is actually a good sign. Think about it.
Yes go with your gut. When I was dating I ditched men with a surgical scalpel b/c I knew what I was looking for, and not. It's not rude, its smart.
You sound like you are looking for a girl with more 'class', by your standard. I'm sure you are both nice people, but she's not the one for you. No need to make it any more complicated than that. Bashing on her (or you for your taste) isn't fair. You are entitled to your preferences. Even if it includes a stick up yer ass.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Wow she gets crucified because of only one drunk text....
Seriously. I just switched from a blackberry (with an actual keyboard) to an IPhone with a bloody keyPAD and I send text just like hers without a drop of booze in me... especially if I don't have the reading glasses on.
I say he should indeed listen to his gut but only because SHE is better off without him and his "preferences." He's not even met her... he doesn't even know she was drunk but he immediately thinks the worst of her... pfffft. Yea.. listen to your gut Op and do her a favour.
Last edited by Wakeup; 16-10-13 at 09:26 AM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
This more your type op?
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Hell LR would take that message and relish it! Where is that rat bastard anyways?